
This made me wonder if all some speakers need is for someone to see them as a speaker!
That is, if you feel insecure about your abilities, but you do your best and your audience appreciates you and you continue to be invited to speak - will that make you better? Will you improve just by knowing that others think you're good at what you do?
I'm sure it helped me improve, when I was just starting out, to be invited back and to believe I was successful because others told me I was successful. And maybe believing I was successful caused my brain to hang onto the positive aspects of my performance and reconstitute them each time. We know that positive reinforcement is a powerful tool in creating behavior change, and a lot of that happens unconsciously.
Has this happened to you in other areas of your life? Has it happened to you as a speaker?
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