You are not the distraction
Let's talk about real distractions:
❌ Wordy and poorly designed slides
❌ Jangling change in your pocket
❌ Constant fiddling with hair and jewelry
❌ A monotonous or grating voice
❌ Overused crutch words and fillers
❌ Uncontrolled movement and pacing
What is not a distraction is you bringing your whole self to the presentation.
We've been told that we shouldn't "distract" with our appearance. That it takes away from the message.
But you are not separate from your message. You and your message are intertwined. You bring your message to life.
A personality void on stage is not what audiences want.
Audiences want a fully-formed human to connect with. They want an authentic relationship with you.
✅ Got tattoos?✅ Purple hair?
✅ Giant earrings?
✅ A natural afro puff?
✅ Facial hair?
✅ A lisp?
✅ An accent?
✅ A disability?
Don't hide. Don't do the audience (and yourself) the disservice of incongruence.
Who you are, what you believe, what you say, what you do, how you look: It's all YOU.
Bring it.
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